hi everyone I want to make this clear to all of you I understand what you mean but all too many times people will say they don’t trust due to past experiences or because they have not seen each others in person. What they don’t realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for... yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that ‘right’ person, it makes all the past experiences, negative thoughts and lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of life’s little lessons do not have to be painful. .. even when they seem so at the time.You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad ‘may’ come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. to do, a Chat’s the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy? Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow. For everyone there Is a someone, you just can’t find them if you hide away all your life. making sure you call the person you care about or love, and be there whenever he or she needs you. Just care for it